mani ppl came 2 pay their respects 2 grampa 4 de last time.. some ppl i haben seen b4. but mostli de relatives r ppl whom, we knew.. some of aunt's frens or colleagues, daddy's, mummy's, even my bro's classmates came... it was when mummy asked me if my frens were cuming tt i felt a little ashamed... my own best frens didnt even cum. maybe their busy.. maybe their doin sth else... i duno. im nt sure if i'll attend such a ceremony if 1of my fren's family member passed away. but i tink tt whld depend on de closeness im wid with tt person. but i didnt tell mani ppl, just afew here n thr. jin, dot, andy, hui2, sandy.. n tink de rest knew when i mssed class de other day. thr r mani qns marks in my head.. but dun tink thr's ans 4them all...some relatives came every day, while some came 2 days... we're realli thankful of tt. i tink grampa is also thankful of them 2.. coz like wat daddy say. 'huan nan jian zhen qin'. meaning tt its onli in times of crisis of trouble tt u'll see actualli whu is gd. coz actions speak louder den words... like my grampa's bro, 8th granduncle. he was in china when we called, den he say he's heading 4 beijing or somewhr. he'll try2 make it in time. but he nv showed up. i mean even if u cant turn up or realli cant make it in time, u'll surely call n tell or sth like tt rite? nt even a phone call... but i guess tts becoz they were frm diff mothers... but grampa is still half a bro 2him! i read thru afew letters frm grampa's possession. it was stated tt grampa always send $$ back 2 them.. so how can they b so ungrateful... but thankfully, grampa still hab a very gd bro, 4th granduncle. though he didnt cry, i tink he was mourning in his heart... coz i heard frm auntie tt when he 1st came 2 s'pore, grampa treated him n helped him as though he was his son. 4th granduncle came almost everyday... haizz... i tink nowadays every1 of us keep sighing... we dun cry tt often when de body is gone.. but de memory of grampa wid us is truly a memorable 1. nv mind abt whu came n whu didnt come. its all over... no pt picking on ppl who didnt attend. my dad say he'll find out y a few of his colleagues didnt cum... duno wat4. haizzz...